Lately, I have been restless and lost in my thoughts. I have days where I feel an overwhelming sense of doom - my heart will quench and thoughts will rattle my tranquility. Other days, I am floating through the world like the wind - choosing my course and exploring every crevice. ♥ I've had to learn to let go of my anxieties and let fate control. Only preparation will help you take on the adventures life will bring.
I have experienced many new friendships this year; it has been a whirlwind of chaos and sometimes I think I am about to lose control. Classic over-thinking on my part. Yet I am always apprehensive about my choices after meeting new people or being in a crowd. Most people do not believe I am shy because I have the tendency to throw myself into a room and smile. That smile is a facade for a young woman whom is terrified. The only repose I have is to control my environment by talking. However, the minute I am alone to reflect begins the self condemnation of things I should have said or could have said and the worry that someone will have misunderstood me and my identity will somehow be threatened by the night.
In the summer of 2010, I had met the President-Elect of a phenomenal organization in Los Angeles that helps empower the Latino attorneys throughout Southern California by bringing in support, opportunities and unity. We not only support one another, but other organizations that focus on making the professional environment in L.A. more diverse through community outreach (for all people of any race, color or origin).
It has always been my belief that a strong support system can be your rock in times of anguish - whether it be self-support or through friendship, family or even being lost in your own thoughts.
I told this man about my ideas for the students of the organization. It was my vision to build a network of support where people could turn to each other for help, questions and friendship. Of course, there are the things that you can control and those you cannot. He ultimately selected me to be part of his board and through the course of that experience I have learned that all you can do in life is be prepared. I can disperse information and enthuse about all the opportunities the organization can bring, but only those that are willing and desire to be a part of the organization will join. There are those traveling in their own paths that may not have time or the will to co-mingle with your path. It is especially bothersome when I feel I am treading on another's path because I never mean to harm; I just get caught up in trying to make my vision perfect. Thus, I lose myself in despair when I feel lack of support or when I don't know if I did something right.
As a member of the board of this Latino Organization, there are many social interactions involved. You can imagine how frightening this situation can be in a young woman who feels an utter sense of abandonment every time she meets someone new, is presented with situations she cannot control, or any time she is disappointed.
It is in these moments of loss that I try to remember how lucky I am to have met such amazing professionals who have guided the paths of many and set the pavement for others to walk upon or the students that have their own dreams/accomplishments and have given me the opportunity to bask in the sunlight of their path. It is in these moments of (my perceived)disaster that I try to remember that I have a group of amazing friends who may not be there at the moment, but would come to me should I fall. Most importantly, I remember my bout with depression when I was an adolescent...
It was during my years as a teen in boarding school - yes, boarding school - that I learned to pick myself up when I fall. Literally and figuratively. I learned my lesson while trying to walk up a familiar path with my eyes closed. I took one step forward and the stability I had beneath me disappeared. Instead, I was confronted with air as I tumbled into the dirt, onto thorns and leaves and covered in dismay. I laid in the ground with tears in my eyes when suddenly I came to the realization that even on a familiar path you cannot go without observing. If your mind is closed and your eyes are closed, then you will never see what is directly in front of you. However, you will never learn without taking a risk (so long as that risk is not fatal). When you do fall, because those moments will come, all you can do is pick yourself off the ground and keep traversing that road.
I titled this entry "Life's Pandemonium" because sometimes life can be a world of torment and chaos. However, it is in these moments we have to take a step back and realize we cannot control everything that comes our way. There are moments where you will guide your path and others where the path will guide you. All you can do is dream of what is over the hill and be ready when the trail surprises you. Experience is the teacher of humanity.
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Saturday, February 5, 2011
Listography and Graffiti
It's strange because I never thought I was one to be so organized. My earliest memory of anything remotely "list-ish" is when I had to fill out 100 things I wanted to do before I die in 8th Grade. I've since lost that list, but there are a couple of things that I do have; I thought I would share.....
Latin American Places to Visit
I feel that I should present this with my reasoning. When I was a kid, I always knew I was Mexican. My father made sure my brother and I were proud of our roots, but as I grew older I realized there was more to it than a sense of pride for your culture. Within our own cultures we stereotype and reject one another for being too dark or too light (mostly too light!) I don't think it should be about that.... I think that if we all supported one another as a group, we could achieve great things. So, I decided to embark on a journey at the age of twenty that would lead me to the insatiable desire to experience all, or at least most, Latin American culture.
The Latino America Travel List:
1. Mexico - check
2. Guatemala
3. El Salvador
4. Honduras
5. Costa Rica - Check
6. Panama
7. Nicaragua - Check
8. Columbia
9. Uruguay
10. Paraguay
11. Peru - Check
12. Ecuador
13. Argentina - Check
14. Chile - Check
15. Bolivia - Check
16. Domincan Republic
17. Cuba
18. Puerto Rico
I suppose I could always discuss the lands I've visited, or share pictures with you...but mostly, I think you should understand what a dream it is for me to visit a foreign land. It's like a rush of fresh air in my veins every time I start to land into a foreign land. Sometimes a surreal feeling comes over me as I wander the cities and try to experience every aspect of a place. Traveling is much more to me than a vacation; it is an exploration. I am very found of Paolo Coelho, so let me share with you my favorite quote. It is very simple: "Beautiful places are meant to be explored."
Listography is somewhat of a new form of expression for me. I've always been one to journal and write down places I'd like to go. However, I never thought of having one binder or place to place all these lists. It's almost a refreshing idea. I have created a few and I am very excited to be able to check a couple of them off. Instead of always getting a new sheet of paper and losing it, I now keep all my lists in one spot. I can write freely, or rather, list freely.
Another thing I've listed is Places to Dine:
1. Jim Danny @ Sacramento, CA
2. Tito's Market @ El Monte
3. Chimichurri @ Santa Ana
4. Surati Farsan @ Artesia
5. Foo Foo Tei @ Hacienda Heights
6. Mirabelle @ West Hollywood
7. Babita @ San Gabriel
There's a bunch more, but I encourage you to try new things. You never know when you'll find something that you love.
Thoughts on Graffiti
Another thing I've been viewing is this website about a graffiti artist who draw the Monopoly man all over L.A. I would love to give you the website, but I am not sure I should. I, by no means, promote vandalism. However, I think this street artist makes some valid points about some forms of graffiti being artwork. There is a big difference between "tagging" and "graffiti." Tagging seems so oppressive to me - emotionally. You have to "tag" to claim your space or feel power. How can a person be free or powerful if they aren't creative, but merely vandalizing? Is tagging to incite fear or make a claim really beneficial to society? I think not. Plus, it's really annoying. Does anyone really care that you can write your name and make it look like 3 year old wrote it? Aren't we a little past that state in life?
Graffiti art is much deeper. It's about getting your message across and inciting discussion. Letting your creativity express a different take on the world. Instead of fighting for space or power, it's pure expression. I only wish there was a more accessible manner for these artists. It's a shame that we, as a society, allow the entertainment and business industries regulate what is popular. It makes many people, who are much more talented, fall behind in the shadows. Some of these people might even have a real message to give us. What happened to all the people that wanted to give us a voice though music and art? Now all I hear is stuff about sex, drugs and violence. Either that or some pompous artist discussing how grandiose they are. Sure, we like to dance to this music... but it's not like it really makes this a better world. We're really just putting money in the industry's pockets. Yet, I almost wonder if being in the shadows carries more of an impact. Maybe the whole appeal to being underground is that it's secret.
It brings people together to know we share something in common. Maybe that's why we visit new lands, new restaurants and new forms of expression because it gives us something to share with others. In sharing, perhaps, we find deeper connections with people. I like the sound of that.
Latin American Places to Visit
I feel that I should present this with my reasoning. When I was a kid, I always knew I was Mexican. My father made sure my brother and I were proud of our roots, but as I grew older I realized there was more to it than a sense of pride for your culture. Within our own cultures we stereotype and reject one another for being too dark or too light (mostly too light!) I don't think it should be about that.... I think that if we all supported one another as a group, we could achieve great things. So, I decided to embark on a journey at the age of twenty that would lead me to the insatiable desire to experience all, or at least most, Latin American culture.
The Latino America Travel List:
1. Mexico - check
2. Guatemala
3. El Salvador
4. Honduras
5. Costa Rica - Check
6. Panama
7. Nicaragua - Check
8. Columbia
9. Uruguay
10. Paraguay
11. Peru - Check
12. Ecuador
13. Argentina - Check
14. Chile - Check
15. Bolivia - Check
16. Domincan Republic
17. Cuba
18. Puerto Rico
I suppose I could always discuss the lands I've visited, or share pictures with you...but mostly, I think you should understand what a dream it is for me to visit a foreign land. It's like a rush of fresh air in my veins every time I start to land into a foreign land. Sometimes a surreal feeling comes over me as I wander the cities and try to experience every aspect of a place. Traveling is much more to me than a vacation; it is an exploration. I am very found of Paolo Coelho, so let me share with you my favorite quote. It is very simple: "Beautiful places are meant to be explored."
Listography is somewhat of a new form of expression for me. I've always been one to journal and write down places I'd like to go. However, I never thought of having one binder or place to place all these lists. It's almost a refreshing idea. I have created a few and I am very excited to be able to check a couple of them off. Instead of always getting a new sheet of paper and losing it, I now keep all my lists in one spot. I can write freely, or rather, list freely.
Another thing I've listed is Places to Dine:
1. Jim Danny @ Sacramento, CA
2. Tito's Market @ El Monte
3. Chimichurri @ Santa Ana
4. Surati Farsan @ Artesia
5. Foo Foo Tei @ Hacienda Heights
6. Mirabelle @ West Hollywood
7. Babita @ San Gabriel
There's a bunch more, but I encourage you to try new things. You never know when you'll find something that you love.
Thoughts on Graffiti
Another thing I've been viewing is this website about a graffiti artist who draw the Monopoly man all over L.A. I would love to give you the website, but I am not sure I should. I, by no means, promote vandalism. However, I think this street artist makes some valid points about some forms of graffiti being artwork. There is a big difference between "tagging" and "graffiti." Tagging seems so oppressive to me - emotionally. You have to "tag" to claim your space or feel power. How can a person be free or powerful if they aren't creative, but merely vandalizing? Is tagging to incite fear or make a claim really beneficial to society? I think not. Plus, it's really annoying. Does anyone really care that you can write your name and make it look like 3 year old wrote it? Aren't we a little past that state in life?
Graffiti art is much deeper. It's about getting your message across and inciting discussion. Letting your creativity express a different take on the world. Instead of fighting for space or power, it's pure expression. I only wish there was a more accessible manner for these artists. It's a shame that we, as a society, allow the entertainment and business industries regulate what is popular. It makes many people, who are much more talented, fall behind in the shadows. Some of these people might even have a real message to give us. What happened to all the people that wanted to give us a voice though music and art? Now all I hear is stuff about sex, drugs and violence. Either that or some pompous artist discussing how grandiose they are. Sure, we like to dance to this music... but it's not like it really makes this a better world. We're really just putting money in the industry's pockets. Yet, I almost wonder if being in the shadows carries more of an impact. Maybe the whole appeal to being underground is that it's secret.
It brings people together to know we share something in common. Maybe that's why we visit new lands, new restaurants and new forms of expression because it gives us something to share with others. In sharing, perhaps, we find deeper connections with people. I like the sound of that.
Sunday, January 30, 2011
The Truth About Relationships
People fight. It's inevitable. No matter how much you complain to your friends or want to kick a person in the peanuts, you'll soon come to realize that if you have someone who's willing to work with you, even when you're both irrational, you have found unconditional love. Don't settle for any less than the best and when you do find that special someone make sure that they are willing to accept you....all of you...even that deep dark angry side and vice versa. Love is not one-sided.
P.s. Violence is wrong no matter what. That is not the best and don't accept it, ever. A person not willing to respect your body doesn't deserve you.
People cheat. Someone who repeat cheats is better left single. This doesn't mean people don't change, they can. However, if they're not willing to learn from their mistake and change, they don't deserve your love. A mistake is a mistake, but a habit is, and probably always will be, a habit.
People judge. Hey, it's what we do inherently. Sometimes we can do the very thing we are judging and not realize it. We are all hypocrites to our own degree. It doesn't make us bad people, it means we haven't fully learned about ourselves or to accept others. Do find those people in your life that accept you and love you. Maybe people judge, but true friends and true lovers can learn to look past their ideals and opinions to try to understand you. To be able to understand and interact with another person is what can make or break a relationship.
People love. Whether it be a family member, a friend or a significant other. We all love. Some we love unconditionally and some we can only take so far.True, it's better to break the ties that hurt you, but it doesn't mean you have to stop caring. At some point in our lives we will lose someone we love to miscommunication, passage of time, betrayal and even neglect. This doesn't mean it won't hurt. Losing someone hurts, but some love isn't meant to last forever. The most aspect of love is to love yourself and surround yourself by people who you can love and they can reciprocate.
Most important of all, do find that person that calls you their shining star. Find that man (or woman) who makes you feel like everything in the world is beautiful. That doesn't mean you're going to have a perfect love because no love is perfect. People do fight and judge - though they should never cheat because that's not love if you're always looking for an escape. If you can both work for each other and put in to the relationship equally, then it is a true blessing. True love is the kind that will last not because it is filled with perfection - perfect relationships usually mean that one person is hiding because no one can agree 100% of the time. True love is the type of love that will stay present, stay focused and stay trying to learn and adapt to you. It is the kind of love that wants to be with you through thick and thin. The love that shouts at you at the top of their lungs and that you shout at the top of your lungs, but end in compromise or try to understand. It is the love that will hold you at night because they want you to be safe and they want to be by your side. It's the love that wants you to be a better person and that you want to make a better person. It is the love that will hold your hand, even when you tell them you are confused. So, don't settle for any less than the best...but don't think that love is perfect...because it's not. It is the imperfection that makes the relationship stronger and helps us understand each other. It is the imperfection that makes us realize we are right (or wrong) for each other - whether it be a friend or lover).
I dedicate this to the one that made me realize all this.... :)
P.s. Violence is wrong no matter what. That is not the best and don't accept it, ever. A person not willing to respect your body doesn't deserve you.
People cheat. Someone who repeat cheats is better left single. This doesn't mean people don't change, they can. However, if they're not willing to learn from their mistake and change, they don't deserve your love. A mistake is a mistake, but a habit is, and probably always will be, a habit.
People judge. Hey, it's what we do inherently. Sometimes we can do the very thing we are judging and not realize it. We are all hypocrites to our own degree. It doesn't make us bad people, it means we haven't fully learned about ourselves or to accept others. Do find those people in your life that accept you and love you. Maybe people judge, but true friends and true lovers can learn to look past their ideals and opinions to try to understand you. To be able to understand and interact with another person is what can make or break a relationship.
People love. Whether it be a family member, a friend or a significant other. We all love. Some we love unconditionally and some we can only take so far.True, it's better to break the ties that hurt you, but it doesn't mean you have to stop caring. At some point in our lives we will lose someone we love to miscommunication, passage of time, betrayal and even neglect. This doesn't mean it won't hurt. Losing someone hurts, but some love isn't meant to last forever. The most aspect of love is to love yourself and surround yourself by people who you can love and they can reciprocate.
Most important of all, do find that person that calls you their shining star. Find that man (or woman) who makes you feel like everything in the world is beautiful. That doesn't mean you're going to have a perfect love because no love is perfect. People do fight and judge - though they should never cheat because that's not love if you're always looking for an escape. If you can both work for each other and put in to the relationship equally, then it is a true blessing. True love is the kind that will last not because it is filled with perfection - perfect relationships usually mean that one person is hiding because no one can agree 100% of the time. True love is the type of love that will stay present, stay focused and stay trying to learn and adapt to you. It is the kind of love that wants to be with you through thick and thin. The love that shouts at you at the top of their lungs and that you shout at the top of your lungs, but end in compromise or try to understand. It is the love that will hold you at night because they want you to be safe and they want to be by your side. It's the love that wants you to be a better person and that you want to make a better person. It is the love that will hold your hand, even when you tell them you are confused. So, don't settle for any less than the best...but don't think that love is perfect...because it's not. It is the imperfection that makes the relationship stronger and helps us understand each other. It is the imperfection that makes us realize we are right (or wrong) for each other - whether it be a friend or lover).
I dedicate this to the one that made me realize all this.... :)
Sunday, January 2, 2011
Laziest Law Student In the World
I've come to the conclusion that I am the laziest law student in the world. No, really. I've been thinking about the time and effort I put into my schoolwork and it's quite pitiful compared to all the people that slave away reading book after book of information. I suppose it's because I'm so attached to socializing that I've decided having a balance of everything is better than focusing on one straight shot.
Haha - these are the shots I focus on:
I'm kidding. Seriously though, I know I'm going to be an amazing attorney one day, whether or not I am #1 in my class or unknown. It goes along with my philosophy of never checking my class ranking - if it's good, I'm just going to become lazier and if it's bad I'll only get worked up about it. The only reason I know I'm doing well is because I got a letter from Law Review - apparently that's supposed to be a good thing..
That's pretty much my rant for the day about law school. Aside from having to deal with legal questions - I think I should start answering simple ones...though...I should have a disclaimer, shouldn't I?
It's just that here's a thing few people know about:
1. Attorney-Client Privilege: When a person (client) speaks to an attorney about any legal matter (legal advice), it is privileged (ONLY) between those two people. So, you really shouldn't have anyone else in the room when you're talking to your attorney about private information. Even if it's your mommy.
2. Law students really don't know much about the law. Sure, they memorize a bunch of stuff...but you shouldn't ask your law student friends about things because they most likely won't know the practical answer. They can't really help you unless they've had experience. And if you're in law school - I'm sure I shouldn't have to tell you this because you already know - don't give legal advice without explaining that you have limited knowledge. You could get in trouble.
3. New Laws in your State - I'm only naming the important ones:
- Driving Under the Influence (AB 1601/Hill) Effective in January 1, 2012, this bill authorizes a court to order a 10-year revocation of the driver license of a person convicted of a third or subsequent DUI violation, with possible reinstatement after five years if specified conditions are met. (You shouldn't be drinking and driving anyway!! It puts other people and yourself in danger!)
- In Los Angeles County, plastic bags are being taken away from some areas' grocery stores. You'll either have to pay 10 cents per bag or go to the grocery store with a reusable bag. However, on a health issue note - if you buy meats, make sure you wash your bags because deadly little bacteria will lurk and pounce on your otherwise healthy immune system (though you should be washing anyway - it's gross).
- Trans-fats are illegal in your local pastries! Damn! I guess that means no more pan dulce for me!
- Terminally-ill inmates will be released on doctor's note, regardless of what their crime is. I don't think I like this very much, but if people are so frail they can't get up, maybe they won't really be a problem anyway. Perhaps it's nature's way of weeding out the bad people.
- Blue Alerts on those freeway signs means an officer was shot and the suspect is still out there somewhere.
- It'll be a misdemeanor to impersonate someone on the Internet if the intention is to deceive or injure another person. DON'T USE SOMEONE ELSE'S IDENTITY!!! The internet is the future, so you can't hide behind it anymore.
- Online traffic school will now be regulated by some division of the DMV. It means it'll be harder to pass - boo!
- For you pot-smokers without a card: having an ounce of marijuana is no longer a huge misdemeanor. It's an infraction. But, if you plan on using that brain of yours, you shouldn't be a pot head anyway. It affects your hippocampus negatively and makes your memory less-effective. If you're an idiot anyway...do what you want...and come to me when you get in trouble! Just kidding, I'm sure you're not that much of an idiot. Haha. :)
Most of this stuff you can figure out if you watch the 10 o'clock news. But in case you don't...now you know.
This is the stuff that matters to me.....
- Lady Gaga's new single will debut Feb. 13. Her new album - Born This Way - will be out some time in May 2011. Whoot whoot!!
- Priceless by Nicole Richie was out September 28. It's on sale at Barnes and Noble right now. Though her books are not exactly intellectually stimulating. they are quite entertaining and filled with drama. Read it if you hate looking in the dictionary and want an easy read.
- My beautiful friend J, has launched her own website. She has pretty cool taste in music (I'm too random to help you all out). You should check it out: JaniceLlamoca.com
- She & Him have some out with a version of "I Put a Spell on You" and it is available for digital download.
- Donkey Kong came out for the Nintendo Wii Last Year and it is A-Mazing!
INTERESTING STUFF
Lake Superior University (where is that anyway?!) came out with a list of banned words thanks to our generation. Ha:
1. Viral (Should we say Trojan now? I'm referring to the internet virus...but really...you could use it referencing to how they prevent STDs).
2. Epic
3. Fail (I guess we can't say "epic fail" anymore! Poor Katy Perry)
4. Wow Factor (I've never used that...)
5. BFF (Whatever, that was so 5 years ago. Everyone knows we say "besties" now)
6. Man up
7. Live Life to the Fullest (I just want to point out that's a phrase, not a word. Good job University of Lake Superior. What a epic fail!! HAHAHAHA... I think "Live it Up" sounds better anyway!)
RANDOM THOUGHT OF THE DAY:
I turn 24 this year and now I feel old (though since going to graduate school I feel young because I've realized most people take time off in between). Anyway...my thought is:
As long as we have our good friends and anti-aging cream, who cares how old we are as long as we have fun! :)
Besides, as I told my friend who turns 24 tomorrow (he told me he feels like he should be more mature and responsible at this age): Look at all the oldies we go to school with and how immature THEY are. We're too young to be mature!
Mind you, because I don't want to offend anyone, we think 25 is old...but next year we'll think 26 is old and so on and so on... :)
The End.
P.S.
Happy New Year!! :)
Haha - these are the shots I focus on:
I'm kidding. Seriously though, I know I'm going to be an amazing attorney one day, whether or not I am #1 in my class or unknown. It goes along with my philosophy of never checking my class ranking - if it's good, I'm just going to become lazier and if it's bad I'll only get worked up about it. The only reason I know I'm doing well is because I got a letter from Law Review - apparently that's supposed to be a good thing..
That's pretty much my rant for the day about law school. Aside from having to deal with legal questions - I think I should start answering simple ones...though...I should have a disclaimer, shouldn't I?
It's just that here's a thing few people know about:
1. Attorney-Client Privilege: When a person (client) speaks to an attorney about any legal matter (legal advice), it is privileged (ONLY) between those two people. So, you really shouldn't have anyone else in the room when you're talking to your attorney about private information. Even if it's your mommy.
2. Law students really don't know much about the law. Sure, they memorize a bunch of stuff...but you shouldn't ask your law student friends about things because they most likely won't know the practical answer. They can't really help you unless they've had experience. And if you're in law school - I'm sure I shouldn't have to tell you this because you already know - don't give legal advice without explaining that you have limited knowledge. You could get in trouble.
3. New Laws in your State - I'm only naming the important ones:
- Driving Under the Influence (AB 1601/Hill) Effective in January 1, 2012, this bill authorizes a court to order a 10-year revocation of the driver license of a person convicted of a third or subsequent DUI violation, with possible reinstatement after five years if specified conditions are met. (You shouldn't be drinking and driving anyway!! It puts other people and yourself in danger!)
- In Los Angeles County, plastic bags are being taken away from some areas' grocery stores. You'll either have to pay 10 cents per bag or go to the grocery store with a reusable bag. However, on a health issue note - if you buy meats, make sure you wash your bags because deadly little bacteria will lurk and pounce on your otherwise healthy immune system (though you should be washing anyway - it's gross).
- Trans-fats are illegal in your local pastries! Damn! I guess that means no more pan dulce for me!
- Terminally-ill inmates will be released on doctor's note, regardless of what their crime is. I don't think I like this very much, but if people are so frail they can't get up, maybe they won't really be a problem anyway. Perhaps it's nature's way of weeding out the bad people.
- Blue Alerts on those freeway signs means an officer was shot and the suspect is still out there somewhere.
- It'll be a misdemeanor to impersonate someone on the Internet if the intention is to deceive or injure another person. DON'T USE SOMEONE ELSE'S IDENTITY!!! The internet is the future, so you can't hide behind it anymore.
- Online traffic school will now be regulated by some division of the DMV. It means it'll be harder to pass - boo!
- For you pot-smokers without a card: having an ounce of marijuana is no longer a huge misdemeanor. It's an infraction. But, if you plan on using that brain of yours, you shouldn't be a pot head anyway. It affects your hippocampus negatively and makes your memory less-effective. If you're an idiot anyway...do what you want...and come to me when you get in trouble! Just kidding, I'm sure you're not that much of an idiot. Haha. :)
Most of this stuff you can figure out if you watch the 10 o'clock news. But in case you don't...now you know.
This is the stuff that matters to me.....
- Lady Gaga's new single will debut Feb. 13. Her new album - Born This Way - will be out some time in May 2011. Whoot whoot!!
- Priceless by Nicole Richie was out September 28. It's on sale at Barnes and Noble right now. Though her books are not exactly intellectually stimulating. they are quite entertaining and filled with drama. Read it if you hate looking in the dictionary and want an easy read.
- My beautiful friend J, has launched her own website. She has pretty cool taste in music (I'm too random to help you all out). You should check it out: JaniceLlamoca.com
- She & Him have some out with a version of "I Put a Spell on You" and it is available for digital download.
- Donkey Kong came out for the Nintendo Wii Last Year and it is A-Mazing!
INTERESTING STUFF
Lake Superior University (where is that anyway?!) came out with a list of banned words thanks to our generation. Ha:
1. Viral (Should we say Trojan now? I'm referring to the internet virus...but really...you could use it referencing to how they prevent STDs).
2. Epic
3. Fail (I guess we can't say "epic fail" anymore! Poor Katy Perry)
4. Wow Factor (I've never used that...)
5. BFF (Whatever, that was so 5 years ago. Everyone knows we say "besties" now)
6. Man up
7. Live Life to the Fullest (I just want to point out that's a phrase, not a word. Good job University of Lake Superior. What a epic fail!! HAHAHAHA... I think "Live it Up" sounds better anyway!)
RANDOM THOUGHT OF THE DAY:
I turn 24 this year and now I feel old (though since going to graduate school I feel young because I've realized most people take time off in between). Anyway...my thought is:
As long as we have our good friends and anti-aging cream, who cares how old we are as long as we have fun! :)
Besides, as I told my friend who turns 24 tomorrow (he told me he feels like he should be more mature and responsible at this age): Look at all the oldies we go to school with and how immature THEY are. We're too young to be mature!
Mind you, because I don't want to offend anyone, we think 25 is old...but next year we'll think 26 is old and so on and so on... :)
The End.
P.S.
Happy New Year!! :)
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Adding Some Pizzazz
Well, it seems I've been neglecting my posting, very much like I've been neglecting writing in my journals. Bad. Normally I start off with some insightful thing about the law or law school and then I go into my flavor of the week. Though, for some reason I feel like Constitutional Law is quite a bore to the majority of people. Admittedly, I'm not quite a fan myself, but I've come to appreciate the intricacies of judicial opinions and "standing." I say standing because that is the only concept I remember from class.
Basically, standing has to do with a person having the capability of bringing a suit into the court - that means that they are allowed to bring the case into court. The person doing the suing is called the plaintiff. In order to be considered "proper plaintiffs" a person must have standing. In order to have standing to sue, the plaintiff must meet the following three (prong) test: (1) they must have suffered an injury in fact - that means that they must have actually suffered an injury; (2) be able to show causation - that there is a relationship between the injury and conduct of the defendant (the defendant is the person being sued); and (3) redressibility - there must be a remedy or a way to fix the situation.
So, I'm going to relate this to my "flavor of the week." Vonsa is the owner of a store called "Cup of the Mornin'." Cup of the Mornin' is well known for its awesome tea cups. Let's say Vonsa sues Bilow because Bilow stole a bunch of her tea cups one night. This is a civil case, not a criminal case. A criminal case is different than a civil case because Civil Cases are brought by private parties against other parties whereas a Criminal Case is one that is brought by the state against a defendant - the "bad" guy. So Vonsa is a private person suing another private person for damages because Bilow stole an antique $15,000 tea cup and it was lost forever and ever....
Does she have standing? Well, let's look at the three things I told you previously.
1. Did Vonsa suffer an injury? Yes; she lost a $15,000 cup.
2. Was there causation? Yes; Bilow stole the cup, therefore his stealing caused her injury.
3. Is there redressibility? Yes; the court can award her money!
Done.
Now onto more exciting things - especially since I am watching the 10 o'clock news and it's making me very sad. Society has really become a tragic display of people's worst charactertraits - rapists in broad daylight, crazy people pushing old ladies to their death....
I've become sort of a tea junkie. The other day I bought an assorted set of Bigelow tea. Today I tried Pomegranate Pizzazz and it was yummy! It felt like little berries were bursting onto my tongue. Though, to be honest with you...Orange and Spice is my favorite. It kind of comes at you like a swirl of happiness! It has a hint of sweetness and a rush of tang. I very much enjoyed it and I think you should go out and try it too!!
Another thing that I seem to have discovered is that TARGET - yes, TARGET - sells Salon Quality Shampoo at a almost less than Salon price!
I bought Tigi Moisture Maniac for $12 - and it comes in sets of 2 for one. That means I paid only $6 per bottle. It smells like an explosion of citrus! I've caught myself swirling my hair and flipping it just to catch a glimpse!
There's also this bumble and bumble TONIC lotion that works wonders on my hair. Lately it's been a hot mess of tangles. I even had to dye my hair brown because I don't have time to maintain my roots. Yes world, I was not a natural blond. Target sells the STYLE lotion, which actually works well with heat, but the TONIC LOTION makes your hair feel like a bunny rabbit's fur. :)
Off I go to drink more tea! I'm on my 3rd cup!
Basically, standing has to do with a person having the capability of bringing a suit into the court - that means that they are allowed to bring the case into court. The person doing the suing is called the plaintiff. In order to be considered "proper plaintiffs" a person must have standing. In order to have standing to sue, the plaintiff must meet the following three (prong) test: (1) they must have suffered an injury in fact - that means that they must have actually suffered an injury; (2) be able to show causation - that there is a relationship between the injury and conduct of the defendant (the defendant is the person being sued); and (3) redressibility - there must be a remedy or a way to fix the situation.
So, I'm going to relate this to my "flavor of the week." Vonsa is the owner of a store called "Cup of the Mornin'." Cup of the Mornin' is well known for its awesome tea cups. Let's say Vonsa sues Bilow because Bilow stole a bunch of her tea cups one night. This is a civil case, not a criminal case. A criminal case is different than a civil case because Civil Cases are brought by private parties against other parties whereas a Criminal Case is one that is brought by the state against a defendant - the "bad" guy. So Vonsa is a private person suing another private person for damages because Bilow stole an antique $15,000 tea cup and it was lost forever and ever....
Does she have standing? Well, let's look at the three things I told you previously.
1. Did Vonsa suffer an injury? Yes; she lost a $15,000 cup.
2. Was there causation? Yes; Bilow stole the cup, therefore his stealing caused her injury.
3. Is there redressibility? Yes; the court can award her money!
Done.
Now onto more exciting things - especially since I am watching the 10 o'clock news and it's making me very sad. Society has really become a tragic display of people's worst charactertraits - rapists in broad daylight, crazy people pushing old ladies to their death....
I've become sort of a tea junkie. The other day I bought an assorted set of Bigelow tea. Today I tried Pomegranate Pizzazz and it was yummy! It felt like little berries were bursting onto my tongue. Though, to be honest with you...Orange and Spice is my favorite. It kind of comes at you like a swirl of happiness! It has a hint of sweetness and a rush of tang. I very much enjoyed it and I think you should go out and try it too!!
Another thing that I seem to have discovered is that TARGET - yes, TARGET - sells Salon Quality Shampoo at a almost less than Salon price!
I bought Tigi Moisture Maniac for $12 - and it comes in sets of 2 for one. That means I paid only $6 per bottle. It smells like an explosion of citrus! I've caught myself swirling my hair and flipping it just to catch a glimpse!
There's also this bumble and bumble TONIC lotion that works wonders on my hair. Lately it's been a hot mess of tangles. I even had to dye my hair brown because I don't have time to maintain my roots. Yes world, I was not a natural blond. Target sells the STYLE lotion, which actually works well with heat, but the TONIC LOTION makes your hair feel like a bunny rabbit's fur. :)
Off I go to drink more tea! I'm on my 3rd cup!
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Hiatus
I'm supposed to be studying for Civil Procedure today (and tomorrow), but I'm getting so lazy. It's becoming a problem. I've spend approximately 45 minutes staring at a peace of paper that I doubt sunk into my brain.
This is what my professor always tells us: Step 1. State or Federal Court?....and that's about as much as I remember for the semester. Awesome.
On a side note, I'm poor. I keep searching my usual websites and I'm beginning to realize that I have no money. But at least my skin still looks good. Thank you sunscreen. ;)
For those of you contemplating law school, do it! I mean, it's not for everyone, but if I can get through it.... you can do it too!
I am the same girl that watches Wizards of Waverly Place or falls asleep in her bed instead of doing case briefs. Sure, when I get called on I have no idea what to say - mostly because I hate speaking in class too - but I'm doing pretty good. :)
So, I kind of want to tell you all the real reason I've decided to blog, but I kind of don't because I do want to be able to get an autograph....
SIMONE LEGNO the creator of TOKIDOKI will be at the SouthCoast Plaza this Saturday signing autograph's and showing off his new collection for Sephora. Some of the stuff is pretty cool. I mean, sure it's overpriced, but what isn't? I had a thought today....we call people sell outs when they become mainstream and start charging a bunch of money for their items.... but isn't that why we're really doing things anyway? Yes, once the secrecy is gone you have to share your discovery with the whole wide world.... but why are we so afraid of not being original and unique?! We're all original and unique. The people who love you most can usually figure out what you're going to say before you even say it, so, you're still original. Don't worry.
And do that person you love a favor, get some mints before a kiss! Speaking of kisses, I'm off before I really do spend the whole day listening to Lenka and doing nothing (wouldn't that be grand?)
Okay, but before I go, one more rant. It's nice to know that the things we love become more available... but must we do overkill?! Grumble!!
Hello Kitty, I understand you're celebrating your 35th Anniversary.... but seriously?! Maybe it's just me, but I don't want to be looking at Hello Kitty's face right before I need to pee. Going to the bathroom and seeing Hello Kitty's face seems more like a horror story. I don't want to associate my childhood memories with throwing up, constipation, pooping and peeing. Yucky!!
I feel like I have to end on a better note then a bathroom. So, here we go... I will give you my secret in life (because I really am always happy - most of the time if I'm not taking 5hour Energy and curling up in my bed crying because I can't sleep and have a final the next morning). “And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: One cannot see what is in the heart, what is essential is invisible to the eye.” So, always live for your heart (but make sure you use your brain while you're doing it).
Kiss kiss,
MoiNoreen
This is what my professor always tells us: Step 1. State or Federal Court?....and that's about as much as I remember for the semester. Awesome.
On a side note, I'm poor. I keep searching my usual websites and I'm beginning to realize that I have no money. But at least my skin still looks good. Thank you sunscreen. ;)
For those of you contemplating law school, do it! I mean, it's not for everyone, but if I can get through it.... you can do it too!
I am the same girl that watches Wizards of Waverly Place or falls asleep in her bed instead of doing case briefs. Sure, when I get called on I have no idea what to say - mostly because I hate speaking in class too - but I'm doing pretty good. :)
So, I kind of want to tell you all the real reason I've decided to blog, but I kind of don't because I do want to be able to get an autograph....
SIMONE LEGNO the creator of TOKIDOKI will be at the SouthCoast Plaza this Saturday signing autograph's and showing off his new collection for Sephora. Some of the stuff is pretty cool. I mean, sure it's overpriced, but what isn't? I had a thought today....we call people sell outs when they become mainstream and start charging a bunch of money for their items.... but isn't that why we're really doing things anyway? Yes, once the secrecy is gone you have to share your discovery with the whole wide world.... but why are we so afraid of not being original and unique?! We're all original and unique. The people who love you most can usually figure out what you're going to say before you even say it, so, you're still original. Don't worry.
And do that person you love a favor, get some mints before a kiss! Speaking of kisses, I'm off before I really do spend the whole day listening to Lenka and doing nothing (wouldn't that be grand?)
Okay, but before I go, one more rant. It's nice to know that the things we love become more available... but must we do overkill?! Grumble!!
Hello Kitty, I understand you're celebrating your 35th Anniversary.... but seriously?! Maybe it's just me, but I don't want to be looking at Hello Kitty's face right before I need to pee. Going to the bathroom and seeing Hello Kitty's face seems more like a horror story. I don't want to associate my childhood memories with throwing up, constipation, pooping and peeing. Yucky!!
I feel like I have to end on a better note then a bathroom. So, here we go... I will give you my secret in life (because I really am always happy - most of the time if I'm not taking 5hour Energy and curling up in my bed crying because I can't sleep and have a final the next morning). “And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: One cannot see what is in the heart, what is essential is invisible to the eye.” So, always live for your heart (but make sure you use your brain while you're doing it).
Kiss kiss,
MoiNoreen
Saturday, September 26, 2009
A Perfect World (I Wish)
Lately the only thing that keeps a smile on my face is the Origins "A Perfect World" Moisturizer. I discovered it in Pasadena when I went with my friend Vani. She wanted to buy face scrub and my insatiable appetite for beauty products led me to the counter. Needless to say, I ended up spending $50 that day, but it was well worth it.
I am almost running out of my little bottle of heaven. Right now they're selling them at Macy's or Origins.com with extra gifts included. Amazing!
I'm just trying to keep my face looking young so that I can stay away from botox until I am at least 33!
I have been told by my dermatologist (and many magazines) that the key to this is SUNSCREEN. YES LADIES, EVEN WHEN IT IS CLOUDY OUTSIDE wear it! If there are clouds there are more rays reflecting off of the water inside of them.
When I was a young girl I was plagued by blotchy skin and a mountain (literally) of acne. In fact, my face looked like the Andes mountains. 'Twas not a lovely experience. In fact, I spent most of high school dreading pictures and finding foundation. I have since discovered that MAC is not good for your skin because it was originally formulated to be STAGE MAKE-UP. Sure, the cover-up is great, but your skin suffers. I am one of those people that prefers clear skin with no product (except the necessities).
If you want to do MAC Studio Fix make sure it is for a special occasion. Although, the powder is pretty good. In fact, I have a friend who swears by it. As always, skin products will react to people's skin differently.
If you are acne prone, like I am, stay away from Studio Fix unless you're going on a super hot date or plan on taking lots of pictures.
But if you want something that's for the silver carpet (the sidewalk). I would go for make-up forever!... :)
Just make sure they match your skin color correctly. The bimbo that sold me mine made me a shade too light and now I look like a ZOMBIE!! I guess that's good for Halloween.
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DAILY SKIN REGIMEN (Courtesy of Moi)
My skin type: Oily on the forehead and sometimes cheeks. Definitely nose. Dry on the chin and lips (or normal if I do not use acne products). I would call this combination.
Face Wash - Origins Checks and Balances
Toner (Must Use!) - Neutrogena Pore Refining Toner (HOWEVER, I'm considering looking into Clinique)
Moisturizer - This one should be obvious A PERFECT WORLD!
Sunscreen - OUT SMART by Origins (my only issue with it is it is hella expensive - face sunscreens make you break out less though)
Every week I also use a scrubber - MODERN FRICTION by Origins.
I am an Origins junkie. I admit it!
Although, my skin is acne free because I take Solodyn. It saved my life. Go get a dermatologist if your skin makes you cry at night. I still get a few here and there. Sometimes my skin is red and splotchy, but there are no more mountains on my face and I am grateful.
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Law school has me on my toes. Yesterday was the initiation for my fraternity. I am rather excited about it.
I have a paper due and it is worth 20% of my grade, so I better work on it. The first one went okay.... but I would have preferred the highest grade in class. Maybe law school is harder than I thought. I spend 8 hours on that paper. Now I will have to spend 2 days on this new one.
I really do enjoy law school and when I get called on in class, I'm not completely clueless anymore.
Example:
Professor Blue Truck:"Ms. Moi, what is an option contract?"
Moi: Did he....just call on me...oh my god....what do I do?! "Uhm, it is a promise to extend an offer for a period of time....and when there's consideration it can not be.....revoked...." Did I just say that? Yay!
Professor Blue Truck: "Yes, and Mr. New-person-to-scare-the-hell- out- of... what is....blah blah blah"
I mostly discuss Contracts because it is my favorite class. Although, Property is exciting because the professor is really cool. He also explains things really well and it is the only class I ever ask questions in because he doesn't scare me.
My Property professor is also blessed with attraction, so it is always nice to look at beautiful people and see them doing something productive. Beauty is man's greatest seducer.... :)
He's almost as pretty as my colorful pens --> I color code all my work.
Plus, if I ever want to give someone a house or necklace...or something important...now I know how to write it down so that I can get it back...or make sure I don't end up like Michael Jackson. I would want my stuff to actually go to the people I designated it for....
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In a perfect world.... I would be a dermatologist. I freaked out at the beginning of my Senior year of college and didn't know what I wanted to do. Little by little, I got into law thanks to some classes I was taking and applied to law school. I do like law school, but sometimes I get this inkling feeling in my heart.....
I guess we'll see where life takes me. I am content with my decision because now skin care can remain a hobby... :)
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